A living library for navigating divorce and life transitions
Divorce brings practical questions and emotional weight — often at the same time. This resource page is designed to give you reliable starting points without overwhelming you.
These resources are updated regularly. You don’t need to use all of them, and you don’t need to know what kind of help you need yet. Start where you are.
Last updated: February 2026
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Finding a Divorce Lawyer or Mediator
Lawyer & Mediator Directories
State Bar Association directories (search “[your state] bar lawyer search”)
Official state-run directories to verify licenses and find family law attorneys in your area.
https://www.americanbar.org/groups/legal_services/flh-home/flh-bar-directories/American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML)
A national organization of highly experienced divorce and family law attorneys.
https://aaml.org/find-a-lawyerMartindale-Hubbell
Lawyer profiles with peer ratings and long-standing professional reputation data. https://www.martindale.comAvvo (lawyer profiles, Q&A, reviews)
Searchable attorney profiles with client reviews and answers to common legal questions.
https://www.avvo.comNational Association of Divorce Professionals (collaborative, mediation-friendly)
A directory focused on collaborative, mediation-friendly divorce professionals.
https://www.divorcenetwork.org
Mediation & Support
Academy of Professional Family Mediators
Find mediators trained specifically in family and divorce conflict resolution.
https://apfmnet.orgAmerican Bar Association – Family Law
Educational resources explaining family law processes and terminology. https://www.americanbar.org/groups/family_law/
Therapy & Emotional Support
Therapist Directories
Psychology Today (filter by Divorce / Separation)
A large therapist directory with filters for divorce, separation, and life transitions.
https://www.psychologytoday.comTherapyDen
An inclusive therapist directory emphasizing identity-affirming and values-aligned care.
https://www.therapyden.comOpen Path Psychotherapy Collective (lower-cost options)
Lower-cost therapy options for individuals without adequate insurance coverage.
https://openpathpsychotherapycollective.orgInclusive Therapists
A directory centered on culturally responsive and identity-affirming mental health care.
https://www.inclusivetherapists.com
Support Groups
DivorceCare
Structured divorce support groups offered locally and online, often faith-based.
https://www.divorcecare.orgMeetup (search “divorce support” in your city)
Community-based peer support groups organized by location and interest.
https://www.meetup.com
Co-Parenting Tools & Support
OurFamilyWizard
A court-recognized platform for co-parent communication, scheduling, and expense tracking.
https://www.ourfamilywizard.comTalkingParents
A communication tool that documents co-parent conversations and shared responsibilities.
https://www.talkingparents.comCozi
A shared family calendar designed to simplify scheduling across households.
https://www.cozi.com
Practical Tools (Money, Organization, Stability)
Budgeting & Finances
Mint
A budgeting and expense-tracking app to help monitor spending and cash flow.
https://mint.intuit.comYNAB (You Need A Budget)
A budgeting system focused on intentional spending and financial clarity.
https://www.ynab.comCertified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) search
Financial professionals trained specifically to support divorce-related decisions.
https://institutedfa.com
Documents & Organization
Google Drive
Secure cloud storage for organizing and sharing important documents.
https://drive.google.comEvernote
A digital notebook for capturing notes, lists, and ongoing thoughts.
https://evernote.comNotion
A flexible workspace for tracking decisions, plans, and personal organization.
https://www.notion.so
Podcasts & Audio Support
Divorce & Beyond
Conversations on navigating divorce with emotional insight and practical guidance.
https://divorceandbeyondpod.comThe Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Supportive discussions focused on emotional recovery and rebuilding after divorce.
https://divorcesurvivalguide.com/podcastBecoming You Again (Karin Nelson)
Coaching-oriented conversations about identity, healing, and life after separation.
https://karinnelsoncoaching.com/podcastAlone: A Love Story (CBC)
A narrative podcast exploring loneliness, love, and rebuilding life after loss.
https://www.cbc.ca/radio/aloneTara Brach – mindfulness & guided meditations
Guided meditations and talks centered on mindfulness and self-compassion.
https://www.tarabrach.com
Books Worth Your Time
The Breakup Bible — Rachel Sussman
Practical and emotional guidance for navigating the end of a relationship.
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/305876/the-breakup-bible-by-rachel-sussman/When Things Fall Apart — Pema Chödrön
A compassionate perspective on uncertainty, grief, and personal growth.
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/159816/when-things-fall-apart-by-pema-chodron/Conscious Uncoupling — Katherine Woodward Thomas
A framework for separating with clarity, dignity, and emotional responsibility.
https://consciousuncoupling.comUntamed — Glennon Doyle
Reflections on self-trust, boundaries, and reclaiming identity.
https://www.glennondoyle.com/untamedThis American Ex-Wife — Lyz Lenz
Cultural and personal essays examining divorce through a feminist lens.
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/705906/this-american-ex-wife-by-lyz-lenz/
Blogs & Online Communities
Divorced Girl Smiling
Personal essays and practical advice focused on emotional resilience after divorce.
https://divorcedgirlsmiling.comDivorce in Good Company
Guidance and education around conscious, less adversarial divorce processes.
https://divorceingoodcompany.comWomen’s Divorce Blog
Legal, financial, and emotional insights tailored to women navigating divorce.
https://womensdivorce.comMoving Past Divorce
Resources focused on healing, co-parenting, and long-term adjustment.
https://movingpastdivorce.comFocused Forward (Katie Van Den Berg)
Coaching-oriented content centered on growth and rebuilding after life transitions.
https://www.focusedforwardcoaching.com
Instagram (Use Gently)
@thesplit_divorcesupport
Divorce education and emotional validation shared in short, accessible posts. https://www.instagram.com/thesplit_divorcesupport/
@mamasguidetodivorce
Parent-focused divorce guidance with practical and emotional insight.
https://www.instagram.com/mamasguidetodivorce/@sadiesdivorcedandhappy
Personal reflections on rebuilding life after divorce. https://www.instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy/
@mylife_after_divorce
Community-oriented content focused on adjustment and self-reflection. https://www.instagram.com/mylife_after_divorce/
@mindfullyready
Mindfulness-based practices for emotional regulation and clarity.
https://www.instagram.com/mindfullyready/@hellodivorce
Educational content focused on legal clarity and modern divorce processes. https://www.instagram.com/hellodivorce/