Rachel Newhouse, divorce coach and Certified Nurse Midwife, smiling with arms crossed
Breaking Up, Not Breaking Down — Breaking Upward with Rachel Newhouse

What Clients Are Saying

“Divorcing with young kids is challenging and I honestly don't know how I would have gotten to the point of feeling like a stronger version of myself without Rachel's support. Rachel is always able to see the big picture, while still making me feel like she's in my corner.”
— M.M., Divorce client

“Going through my divorce was one of the most disorienting and vulnerable times of my life, but having Rachel by my side made all the difference. She has this rare gift of holding space with honesty and zero judgement. Her approach is raw and real in the best way - it makes you feel seen, held, and gently encouraged to heal. Even in my messiest moments, she helped me feel grounded and reminded me that I could trust myself again. If you're navigating a divorce just know Rachel is someone who will meet you where you are and walk you through it with so much wisdom and love."”
— L.R., Divorce client

Rachel sitting on a wooden stool by a window, working on a silver MacBook laptop in a bright, minimalist room with white walls and a herringbone wooden floor. Rachel is the coach and Breaking Upward is her business

Hi, I’m Rachel - Your guide through the chaos of divorce.

It goes without saying that you never intended to end up here - needing a divorce. I know because I’ve been there: Divorced at 29 with a 3-year-old, having to rebuild from the ground up. My expertise is grounded in my 12+ years as a Certified Nurse Midwife and Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner. I know what it takes to walk through crisis with grit, honesty, and compassion. This is not therapy. It’s action-oriented divorce guidance and coaching designed to help you:

  • Avoid costly mistakes

  • Stay grounded in high-stress moments

  • Build a post-divorce life you can look forward to